The only way I'm fishing on a paddle boat with my boy is with a load a beer, and a clear understanding that I'm not doing the paddling. The beer is because I know I'm paddling back from where ever he takes me.
I took my boy and his friend (2 - 7 year olds) fishing 3 weeks ago. It was so hard not to yell at them both all day. I didn't want to be "that guy." But good gosh it was hard to keep control.
My boy is great on the boat with just me. The other kid was dropping lures and weights in the water when I wasn't looking.
My only solice was I remembered this scene from Dumb and Dumber and it made me laugh during the rough moments:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrbKn5boVPA&feature=relatedI felt like the gangster starting around 25 seconds into the clip.